And I get the reference Cadet is making. I used to get that all the time. From the minute my ex left - he needed permission from OW to talk to me - like I was OW to her. It's nutty but that's the way it is...
I would stay out of the mess. I would not talk to him - it just boosts his ego (women just can't let me go...). And I would forget the event. Because even thinking about going will mess you up. Honestly to this day I have never met OW. Because even 15 years later - I know it will hurt me. And I just can't do that to myself.
