G I'm not sure why you need to talk to him? You are just prolonging the pain. There is nothing to be said that would be of benefit to you the way I'm reading things.if he already has a GF that says a lot about him. Time to switch your brain off. Stop the negative views you have of yourself. Those views were created as you were growing up and kick in automatically. Learn to challenge them with more rational beliefs of yourself. Ok I'll shut up now smile


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden