I don't think i will forgive my WW if she actually cheats. I cheated on my XGF, then a year later we had a break, still were exes. She slept with someone else in those 3 months and I could not look her in the face. I did not want to be anywhere near where another man was.
But i do believe that this process removes those insecurities and you are able to love someone, even the WW, without thinking of the past, just the present and the future. Like it was when you first started going out. It's really detaching the pain, the fear, the sadness. The WW signifies all that we need to detach from.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
