That or a visit to the OM house with my baseball bat. Dont do that.
Reading the different threads I dont know how any of you do it. Coping with an acting out WW, yes you cant control her but i'll be damnded if i let her drag my name and marriage through the mud.
Is it soo different across the pond, is there no honour or chaste or whatever. Cant you stand up for your M and say whats not right or does noone care anymore? Does everyone feel so entitled to be selfish?
Why is it ok for any spouse man or women to be up all hours of the night with strangers of the opposite sex? How and when did that become ok on the pretext that you cant control his/her life?
You are in the M or you are not. Since when did it become ok to pretend you are single because you are unsure if you want in the M or not? and why do we put up with it?
Sorry venting but reading your sich i wonder why has this culture become this way.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.