There has to be someone on here who knows but isn't sharing... How many spouses actually return? The odds have got to be much higher for people on this forum than the general public, with the 180's and LRT's and all that. % of WAS? % of WW? % of MLC?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.