Ralph, yep, that has become obvious. These friends are in my hometown, not hers... And she plans to buy a house right in the middle of all them, like right across the street! Two blocks away would be too far!
But not too many people like this group, they are all stuck with each other. And know the rest of town doesn't like them.
The faculty at the school doesn't like them either. W and one of her FF's were in the school based volunteer association (can't have terms that lead back here). The FF is hated at the school. The association was getting pushed out even prior to BD, and I told W it was because of her FF. W and her FF quit now.... Hoping that will be one more catalyst to make her realize, but I doubt it.