I think your assement of 50/50 for you and 10/90 for him....
Kind of explains my r, he married but once. He placed all the Balme on the other party being guilty that being me. He told me o didn't work hard enough to make it work.
Says more about the sort of person they are, they think there is no work and all fun times. Xh2 even allowed his mum to weigh in and deem me unfit same as she did with the first wife. They called her immature and useless. Me I according to my mil a wanton woman and the affair woman. Now I think she might have been right, but at the time I knew no different, only what I was told.
If I had looked more closely at the actions of the parties then I might have made different choices.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
