Shouldnt have snooped, i was doing so well. My wife was running a little late for work today so OM called her (he's her boss). Actually not even late, she had 15 mins till opening but shes usually in the office earlier. I suspect was just a reason to call her.

I have the recording (i work for cell company), nothing suspicious, he was asking if she was coming into office. Its just they way he said it, all soft toned like. Not at all how two normal professionals would talk. He mentioned a few others things about being paranoid messaging around his W and stuff like that.

Out of anger, i called him. Stupid move but he was surprised.

So much for detachment. I just feel like hes gotten off lightly. My honor demands blood be repaid...okay being overly dramatic.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.