I don't think you need to look at being flirty with xh.

More like at him, so how do I put this. Be preseted well, be happy light cheerful by unaviable.

Remeber back when I went to collect my things from xh2 house, I was dressed in a dress stockings heels makeup hair. He wanted me to trail him round from here to there and back across dirt in my best red sweude shoes!

Did I nope, my attitude was nope you collect (in my head I was thinking fetch small untrustworthy man fetch!) stood there in a sweet heart neck line standing almost stretched, he was sweating bullets.

What he expected was not what happened, he in his ego thought I was dressed to seduce him, what he got was left high and dry after about 15min thinking wtf happened.

You need to flip his thinking to wft?
Well I would... But then that's me and supposedly I'm super dooper odd.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26