Thanks Again Mowgli for the Kick in the Ass! Your not coming off as harsh. it's well needed advice. I have been trying to get out there and GAL. The biggest thing I've been doing is I started going to the gym and swimming. I do plan on taking up Drums. Always wanted to, don't have a drum set yet and need to wait for this in house seperation to become a 2 home seperation and all the L talk and finances worked out. I've been doing a lot with the kids on my days off soccer, swimming, Taekwondo, Dance, etc when they are with me and WW is working which was pretty much the same as before BD.

I've been pretty good at detaching although I find when we are in the house together it triggers me and I get all off kilter. The remainder of the time I'm usually good. I will head over to MLC section and find the homework you gave me. Thanks for pep talk! It's needed some days.


Me 40
W 35
Kids 2 S6 D3
T 10 yrs M 8yrs
BD 11Mar16