Sorry that you find yourself here. You won't find a better group of individuals who will help you through this.
Were both of you previously married? If so, what happened in her first M?
You're not the reason for her A. That's her choice. In terms of her complaints about you, which ones were true?
She was married before. She didn't want to marry him but felt pressured when she was pregnant. He abused her and she left him. I was not married but had a child. Our girls were both 3 years old when we got together.
I did get complacent and I was not consistent. In the past when she would have conflict with other people I was not always aggressive to defend her. She complained that I did not talk to her or touch her enough. All of this is true, but not my intention at all. I feel like I failed and hopeless because I have no way to change what I have done.
