RAI
I have struggled with that for so long. I see there side as messed up admit sounds. If they honestly can't see a way to make things work for whatever reason then they do believe they are doing the best thing and being brave. That is why when we try to show our side it is just pushing them further as we are standing in the way.
Disregard the fact that we are willing to work to the bone to make things great for all

They hear that part and are convinced it can't change it be fixed.

They feel they have exhausted all options.

That is the part that [censored]. We have been woken up and they are not.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15