Ralph
I get a feeling you are pretty angry right now. I know what you are saying though about the cake eating. Kind of why I am where I am with my situation.

I know we get some really one way advise here. But I take each situation as its own. If I had knowledge about OM in my case there would be no talks at all.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15