Truly Scrant, I think while the A is still in play, stepping back from her and moving forward with your own life is the best thing to do. I think if she always sees you there as back up plan, she doesn't truly face the complete loss of you. But these things do take time and I think 'waiting without waiting' is the best plan - keeping your focus on yourself and building positive things in your own life.

You're doing well.....are you still making new GAL plans? smile


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus