no. no. no.

She's out at some other dude's house and you're considering giving her affection/attention when she gets home???????????? Especially when this is a dude that we all know wants to have sex with her.... it's not a long-life innocent friendship. It's an emotional affair headed to become physical.

Unless you WANT to be 2nd to OM, then by all means, continue to let her have cake and eat it to. Otherwise, let her be!! Focus on you!

What does it matter what is on her phone? She's WITH HIM RIGHT NOW!!