"@cbtdad, i don't want to open wounds, but what was she like when she was getting over the OM?

I'm not sure i'll see mine get there, but she did say this evening that she really did have feelings for her OM, but that OM2 and his crew are a welcome distraction... (that puts me at ease). OM1 still appears out of the pic, but i cannot know what happens during her work hours"

The initial few days were depression.
Almost like the roles were flipped. I was watching her go through what I went through losing her.
For about a week she would cry all the time.
The sex didn't return until 3 months later for us. And even when it did I would think "is she thinking about him?"
Watching her explain these things in front of me at MC was tough
She was slow to come back to me and still don't thinks she has completely
That's one of the reasons I'm back here again
She never owned up to it. And that was a huge mistake on my part!!
That's why I continue to say this time around I could never put up with another A
I can't go through that again


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it