What should I be doing? (2)

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Thanks for your input everyone, you all know how badly you want to just believe that the S you married is back.

Sandi, should I figure out a transparency plan with her at Fire acadamy or just lay out the NC or no deal?

My take is it might be too soon for NC. I think you continue GAL to make yourself more attractive to her, so when you do drop the NC, you are more desirable to her.

She's not back yet. But she is on the path. Keep doing what you are doing, GAL, quiet confidence, don't chase, don't pursue. It is a marathon, not a sprint.