What should I be doing? (2)

[cbtdad]

Coconut.
This right here is how Sandi helped get through my first stint here.
She will drop the 2x4 on you and you have to be understanding that you have to be working on yourself for you. You can not believe a word your WW says right now. 3 years ago I remember believing my wife when she said it was over. Guess what? That was February of 2013. She finally came clean with everything in April of 2013 and then shut off all contact in June 2013.
The coming off that A high was something I wasn't ready for. Watching my W get over somebody else was the so painful
That's why this time around I snooped again
I needed to know if I was dealing with WW or WAW.
Because those are two different situations

Hang in there. Just keep working on you. You can't control what she does