Originally Posted By: DDJ
Insanity is that i'm going to wake her and see if she wants to go out still. Plan for the best DDJ.


I may have missed it, but I didn't notice she confirmed she wanted to go... if you don't wake her, what's likely to happen?

- If she didn't want to go anyway, you will get to avoid the bad news and she may be surprised that you didn't pursue her and that you went out to have fun without her.
- If she did want to go, then she'll know she has to be more assertive next time if she wants on-board the DDJ train.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11