Still no discussion of R and I know she will never be the one to start it since she is the one who set all of this in motion but I really am starting to feel she is hoping I open that door. Her body language says so our interactions say so. There is no A in our split so there is none of that to deal with but I don't know if I should actually be the one who broaches the topic of are you sure this is still what you want to do. Should I feel her out on MC?
I'd hate to take giant steps back if I am misreading, GAL and DB'ing has been going so well, I could really use some advice from the more experienced forum members out there, please help!
My experience is that the most confusion comes at the very beginning and the very end of all of this.
I would classify you still at the start end of the pool.
So her being confused is not surprising.
Odds are you are mis-reading her body language and until she is ALL IN on your marriage, you don't have one.
As far as knowing whether their is an affair or not, I think it matters little. She could have a make believe affair partner that only exists in her head and you will have no way to know that.
Have you read the homework? Especially pursuit and distance.
You want her to pursue YOU, not the other way around.
