SadHub,
The night sweat is definitely due to my AD, Lexapro... It started right after I took it. Searched on the web and apparently it's a well-documented side effect. Better wash my sheets more frequently, I guess!
Yes, I hugged S11 frequently. He is not too old yet for hugs, he still has a stash of stuffed animals he sleeps with :-)


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016