Quick update. My phone coach turned out to be available this morning.
On discussing my overall situation and the apparent progress so far I ultimately agreed that ideally I would like her to be the one to come forward, rather than me having to drag it out and giving her the cover of refocusing on me as the bad guy for snooping.
I mentioned being nervous about "cake eating". She said to trust my gut... my gut feels like her apologies, conflictedness, and the interactions she initiates have been genuine, so I'm going to stay the course for now.
Keep focusing on DB/GAL, and staying friendly when she initiates or wants to tag along. Being occasionally a little playful/flirty since she has been receptive/reciprocating to that in moderation.
The book had a quote about "Whatever happens, it will be for the best" - that resonated with me, and has been helping me be upbeat today.
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Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11
