This is normal. My WW has surrounded herself with non pro marriage people, and stays completely clear of anyone religious or that would try to talk normal people sense to her. She is also very munipulating and has turned even those that originally tried talking sense to her. The whole rewriting of history, making me the bad person, it's all my fault, I filed, blah blah. I did care what people thought, but no longer... I have my faults, sure, but this was her doing, and I am not the bad guy.
This sounds so familiar in my sitch. Not only did WAW befriend and surround herself with other divorced women, she cut off our church leader, discontinued seeing the MC, and sought out family members that would cheer her on to do this.
It is so disheartening to see so many of the same scripts for the situations on these boards. I feel so naive. I have known so many divorced folks, but the reasons all seemed so apparent. Abuse, substance use and even mental issues. WS were another reason, but I tended to see the LBS just bail out as they did not want the cheating spouse back.
Anyway, I guess it makes sense that the WS surrounds themselves with those that agree or encourage them. Maybe it is just like us LBS surround ourselves with those that fight for the MR and family.
The best advice is Dbing because regardless we focus on the one and only thing we can control.
Ourselves.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
