For now I'm working on GAL primarily, I need to get rid of ego (having a beautiful woman by your side really makes you feel good) and gain confidence and self worth/happiness.... If things change and she starts acting weird again, then I may speed up imposing my boundaries of NC, but for right now I don't think she Is doing more than just seeing him at the station for calls. She's been home a lot more, getting home right on time, etc.... She has even been leaving her phone laying around rather than always having it in her hand..

(And Sandi should be by any minute with that 2x4, but remember im working on GAL, finding self confidence/happiness and validating)


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized