Just got off the phone with coach as it has been about 2 months since last call.
I filled him in.
He thinks it is a positive that she hasnt just flat out said no.
We discussed if there is no response or a "no " is said and how i react .
A 180, would be for me to joke around bringing it up and say "was it you I asked to dinner this weekend?"
or now that she is a little under the weather to go ahead and say to her that since you are not feeling well and a busy weekend coming why dont we postpone.
And if she says no, then i should still act the same around her and interact instead of withdrawling and do dim.
these are all different than what i would typically do.
A lot to think about.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15