Thanks for taking my comments in the manner intended. It is a tough situation and I can understand where that anger comes from. . Hopefully the move will help with that.WAS tend to find people that will listen to them and sing their one sided song to that audience. Without the audience maybe she would have changed songs or found another audience.SShe could even just sing loadly to herself. What I am trying to say is that you could be right in that being a negative influence BUT you cannot really know to what extent if any that really played. Some people think they are being a good friend/neighbour and don't realise they are creating bigger problems by "helping".

I may not be clear in my message and I don't condone their behaviour ESP the gay guy, but find a way to healthily release your anger and reseeñtment.

Best of luck.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together