New to Site - Just found about another

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Well, it has been a while since I have posted, I have discovered that she is texting some young stud that she met a year and a half ago, god knows whatever else she is doing with him. I also discovered another letter from another guy that she works with. I am not sure if this can work out. We are swapping back and forth living in the house, she made the calendar of who stays and when, she is in control. She is spending a ton of money, I have written her a letter saying that she is free to do whatever she wants, and I am just going to do the same. I only text when necessary, I think I am ready to tell her I want a divorce. She thinks we can keep doing this until the end of the month when we start staying in the house together again in separate bedrooms.