Absolutely Sunny. Maybe someday I can follow the herd, abandon my beliefs, and endorse the idea of a series of 5-10 year relationships that end with betrayal and abandonment citing escape from abuse and framing it as a positive experience due to the ensuing personal growth. But at this time that seems totally appalling to me and I don't feel this world offers what I'm looking for.
Zues, sweetie, you are so black and white (said with much affection and a good dose of humor). I would never try to persuade you otherwise.