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How do I give her space and then also trust her at the same time?

You dont. Have you read the rules? Believe none of what they say and only half of what they do.

She is definitely not going to choose me, but I'd rather hear that than the lies that she wants to make it work?

Why would you want to hear either? If you dont ask the question, you wont get an answer that hurts.

OK, I get the appropriateness of her interaction feedback. But it's wholly inappropriate. How do I understate that?

Its inappropriate. Clearly. But theres not much you can do. If you see her texting other men, you can leave the room. If she goes out until 3, you lock the house up and go to bed. Protect yourself. Put the boundary around you. Not around her.

It is controlling to ask her to shut out the world, but if she's willing then she should do anything...

I think you're stretching the definition of anything.


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