How do I give her space and then also trust her at the same time?

She is definitely not going to choose me, but I'd rather hear that than the lies that she wants to make it work?

OK, I get the appropriateness of her interaction feedback. But it's wholly inappropriate. How do I understate that?

It is controlling to ask her to shut out the world, but if she's willing then she should do anything...

I'm still "bipolar". Unconfident and my worst enemy.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.