Quick update, I decided to let the graduation rant go. I did quickly express my disapointment in not being able to see her walk but let it go after that.

My W and I in our interactions have been getting along surprisingly well. I mean really well. I make her laugh again and we discuss things in relation to our S better than ever before.

Still no discussion of R and I know she will never be the one to start it since she is the one who set all of this in motion but I really am starting to feel she is hoping I open that door. Her body language says so our interactions say so. There is no A in our split so there is none of that to deal with but I don't know if I should actually be the one who broaches the topic of are you sure this is still what you want to do. Should I feel her out on MC?

I'd hate to take giant steps back if I am misreading, GAL and DB'ing has been going so well, I could really use some advice from the more experienced forum members out there, please help!