You are spot on though, we pick them. We have picked people that should have thrown red flags, but were blinded in the begining. I picked my WW because she was fun and attractive and the sex was great. She was immature emotionally, but I thought it was just inexperience. I thought we could grow together. I was more a father figure I guess, caring and nurturing her. I think she gave a family life a 'college try', but that is not really who she is.
Ralph88 Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9 2013 B drop 1, EA found 2016 B drop 2, EA/PA? 2/16 Physical Seperation 2/16 I filed for D 4/16 PA Confirmed