I do not think that it's not pursuing, I am telling her that I am moving forward and that I will not live the lifestyle that she wants. I am distancing myself. Giving her the choice and then making my own choices.

I cannot tell her what to do or what she wants, but I cannot give up my principles. I have given up pride, humility but not my principles.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.