Hi jjb, I vaguely knew that the xh had some money stashed away which he didn't declare. I should have outted him. I didnt. It would have affected the judge's opinion of his integrity and it would have affected the outcome of the fins decisions.
I wish I could help you more with the legal process but the process here is very much different from yours.
You are a strong woman and a great mum. You can do this!
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.