Hi jjb,
I vaguely knew that the xh had some money stashed away which he didn't declare. I should have outted him. I didnt. It would have affected the judge's opinion of his integrity and it would have affected the outcome of the fins decisions.

I wish I could help you more with the legal process but the process here is very much different from yours.

You are a strong woman and a great mum. You can do this!


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.