Thank you for your post, SadHub, it was kind of an eye opener.
I have been thinking about the photos' issue.
I am not being true to myself.
My decision has everything to do with STBSX.
We have had parties in my office and also some walks in parks. I have taken pictures of such events and have shared them with my colleagues.
It is a fact that I do not share the original files, but resized versions with light watermarks, but I do share them.
What about STBXW?
Well, right now I would not lend her a hand for anything, since she fired me as her husband and she has plenty of friends. Also, this issue does not involve the kids, where I am always open to compromise.
So, the fact is that I don't want to give her a copy of the photos because it is her and because I don't feel comfortable giving her photos that I took or anything else that belongs to me.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15