Coconut, my WW is doing the same thing regarding letting me know. I figured that what she's doing is bringing any possible affairs to become part of the daily things that get done.

So mine is onto OM2, will chat to him, setup meetings with him and his "friends". Not sure there are actually friends. But mine is trying to build trust so that she can do whatever she wants, when she wants to. There is nothing more vindictive than openly having an affair whilst masquerading that you're building trust.

Mine has become as soft as jelly. Anything to reel me in to believing that she's trying. Anything to keep me hooked.


Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.