14 days of sheer hell, still in fog 5

[DDJ]

@dream, i never really thought that we're separated, I thought that the WW wanted to be married and make things work.

The sooner that I am out of limbo, the easier it will be to move forward without my WW or as a married couple trying to make things work.

So, I have asked my WW to decide what she wants to do, and again, I will see it in her actions.

She can choose to be married and try and make things work. Showing a willingness to give up her "single" life and take "us" day by day.

She can choose to be separated and we will not try to make things work. She can come and go as she pleases and we will work towards D together.

Now, every action has an opposite reaction - but rather, I see it as consequence. If she chooses to stay married, then I will continue to focus on improving myself and being the best H that I never was for her and we will overcome this together.
If she chooses to be separated then she will need to move out of the MBR, into the second room, until she eventually moves out of the house. I will then focus on being the best H that I never was and will overcome this separation alone.

I do not need a spoken answer from her, just her actions. I do not believe that given her a choice for her life is an ultimatum. I'm simply saying that whatever choice she makes, these are going to be my choices.

Any feedback would be appreciated.