Hi kml,
Thanks for your input.

The patch is more irregular. I highly suspect that it's from hair pulling.

And now I just found out that xh's family has been asking kid if she would like to go on an overseas trip with them.

This is not part of the legal agreement. Kid is too young to leave the country without me.

I have told them that they cannot take kid out of the country without my permission and I have definitely told them that I will not let kid leave the country without me.

They are definitely playing dirty and I am extremely upset. Why do they have to put kid through this? They knew I would say no so that made use of kid?

I am trying not to be a bitch about access arrangements and have been more than generous. I need kid too and when I have her, I dont just dump her with my family and do my own stuff.

Why are they taking advantage of my generosity?


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.