Thanks Vise and Hub, I appreciate the check in and the encouragement, I am usually too hard on myself. Vise: In house S is living he11. There is still the same pressure because there is the same dynamic, I don't have enough leverage to change it while I'm in the house. I am kinda relieved that we are going to go our seperate ways, honestly I think I need the peace. I think the W was looking to have some more R talk this afternoon, when I got home she sat at the table with me when I had dinner, but she was visibly pissed and when I asked some questions I got one word answers. So I finished eating and got up and made a phone call. She got even more pissed and took the kids upstairs to the attic and left me alone downstairs. I heard them laughing and having a great time. I was feeling kind of offended. Then the kids came downstairs and hung out with me for the rest of the night. Without me asking them to! So all in all a good night I think.