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Kyrie,

I'm afraid your H needs an intervention. Clergy and pornography are at complete opposing world views. His shame is high, and he covers his shame with more pornography. He sees no end to it, as it's his crutch, and our evil foe will use the path of least resistance to get to us.

Continue to seek counsel. If you don't know about the marriage, things have gotten to a point that others, in kindness, need to show him a different future, The future where he continues his path, or he chooses the narrow path, and works his way back to you. Only he can make that choice, but I've seen people on this board get through the fog, and others that retreat into the fog. Let the Holy Spirit do the work that you can't do - and continue to pray.