Check my last thread as Phoebe and Blu shared some great thoughts on detaching. The word is used frequently on these forums and the interpretation seems varied or misunderstood. But the thoughts from these 2 lovely ladies really hit home for me and helped me know that with the right efforts it will happen,but the time frame will vary for each of us. Work towards it, but don't force it. It will happen with the right effort.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine