Frustration is not a good word. It definitely wasn't done because of that.

Let me paint a better picture.

We have been doing so much together and getting a long so well. I have no intention of being her friend going forward. We will be cordial because of co parenting but I saw things slipping into just a friend zone. I have no desire for that. If I just backed off completely I will always wonder should I have tried. If it doesn't work I am backing off anyway and whatever plays out in her world plays out. But for me I not be sitting by curious or spending the time together anymore.

Anything that happens then will all be coming from her. If it is nothing so be it.

Don't know if that helps explain my mindset.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15