OTW - I honestly think this was done out of frustration- I truly understand your frustration. Being in Limbo is the worst place to be.

I feel that her reaction sounded like she wasn't ready for this yet. I can't help but think of the scared squirl analogy.

Please don't take what I'm saying as me having any real experience in this stuff, but I've been reading my ass off in this forum (I'm sure you have too) One thing I've picked up on is timing is everything, and this stuff takes a lot of patience.

I would recommend backing off for now, and see what happens.

Like I said, I realize you been at this awhile, and I'm sure you're dying for some sort of resolution. You will definitely be in my thoughts tonight.

Hang in there.


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