Now or .....?

[vise82]

Hey because its not me, maybe I can see more clearly,

I think you know the answer to the question you want to ask, she is going to say no to a R. She wants a co parenting R with you.

I think you need to just live your life and let it go. Easier for me to say to you then do myself.

If she wants to be with you she would be with you. But are you looking for the divorce first before you really move on? Do you think she is? I doubt it, maybe.

Have you thought about filing for divorce? Nothing says dropping the rope more than that. Look at your W actions, has anything indicated to you that she wants to start a romantic R with you at this point?