This is What's up

[RosaLinda]

You do know that you most likely will not get the answers you're seeking, right G? And probably won't like what you hear. And if you do like what you hear, you might be hearing a pack of lies.

I understand why you feel the need to do this; it will be hard for all of us to face him again. But it will be good, and I'm all for talking it out with exNG, if it helps you heal, brings you a bit of peace, and helps you to move on.

Good luck. Remember -- YOU are a gift -- awesome, smart, pretty, loyal, kind, worthy of love and of all good things in life. NG is a loser. You don't need him. He does not deserve you.

Job is right - keep those expectations at zero, get what you have to say out, and move on.

PS congrats on becoming a moderator Job!!! It's well deserved!