Ginger, I understand why you have this desire to speak to him and get it all out on the table. You may come away from this meet-up and/or conversation and still not have the answer you are seeking. I do hope that you can keep your expectations at zero and be able to acknowledge and accept that you've done all that you can do and realize that you deserve far better in life than this man. Ginger, when you least expect it, Mr. Right will appear.
I want to wish you the best of luck and hope that you get the answers you need to finally let him go.
BTW, Ginger, you may want to think about starting a new thread, as well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
