OH, and to be fair, I have completely blown up in anger a couple of times at him. He made a few comments about my appearance...considering it felt like he was making comparisons (unintentionally) to his expectations fueled by porn, I really reacted. Really really reacted. He said he forgave me. But the issue has not gone away & we don't seem able to deal with it.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
