Jim,
It is survivable, but at what cost? That is what I'm coming back to constantly. It will be torture to go through the D trial. I was writing out my answers to her L's interrogatories and it is so painful. I just don't see any movement in WW's position especially since I'm funding her spending habits. At S11's last games, I just noticed she bought herself a new pair of $300 sunglasses. To go through a year or two of this will be torture. At the end, I'll probably have to continue funding her for the next decade, if not longer. She'll get child support for S11 for at least 7 more years too.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016