man OTW are we in similar spots or what (minus the kids). I feel the exact same way and struggle with what to do here and you have been at it even longer. I often think that I must have completely misinterpreted her message or words because I get no follow up.
I feel like doing the same exact thing you mention within the next 2 weeks. I don't want to get into heavy R talk, but I do want to know the deal and if D is what she really wants, then let's go already.
I wish I had a suggestion for you. At this point you have DB'd for a decent amount of time, you are no newbie. Maybe it's time to go with the gut? I don't know... I don't know for myself either.
BTW.. good to see you post. I was wondering where you had been.
