So had a text from W the other day. I am taking the kids on holiday next week for the whole week, W is then asking me what my proposal for the week after was regarding the schedule. S7 is still off school but there is a daycare program that W had mentioned putting him in a couple of weeks ago. A couple of friends are telling me that W is looking for my guidance as usual but am a little concerned about being 'controlling' (This is something she has complained about)

I did answer that I didn't have a proposal as such because I didn't know what she wanted, said we could pick up the normal rotation or she could have them for the week, but left it in her court as to what she wanted.